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Dental hyGenes

Published on May 1, 2014May 1, 2014 by a.simple.mamaLeave a comment

As I sit here typing with half of my face numb and the other half tingly from 2 fillings today, I can’t help but think back on the many many many many times I’ve been in the dental chair. My first major filling was when I was 4. Since then my mouth has always been total crap. Not for lack of brushing either, just genetics (I tell myself). My mom has told me the story countless times. During my 4 year old wellness checkup the doc noticed that one of my molars was rotting out of my head. Brushing wasn’t in my routine at that age. Whoops.

Now as a mom myself, I can’t say that I would remember to incorporate regular brushing into my kiddos routines either. It’s not something that I’d put at the top of my list for sure. The times I’ve ever had to help a little one brush their teeth, it’s more them sucking the toothpaste off the brush rather then actually “brushing” anything. So even if you are “brushing” every night, there’s no guarantee that there will be any major effect.

I do have the baby finger toothbrush thingy and the baby toothpaste (no fluoride), and in the last 10 months we have used it…maybe 3 times. Whoops. The experts tell you to brush even before teeth. Ha, no teeth? Like I’m going to remember to brush something that doesn’t exist yet. Kudos to the mama’s out there who keep dental hygiene at the top of their list. I am not one of them, apparently.

Speaking of teeth…J has 6 now. holy crap. He didn’t have any and now he’s got 6. No wonder he’s been such a pill lately. I knew he was cutting teeth on the top, but I tipped him upside down one day and got a glimpse of 4 top teeth cutting at the same time. I would be grumpy too! Poor lil’ guy 😦

Teething from here on should look something like this…although I’m taking this with a grain of salt.

Found this on good ol’ Pinterest.

When did your little one teeth? Did they come in easy or was it a grump fest at your house too?

To wean or not to wean

Published on April 29, 2014 by a.simple.mamaLeave a comment

As J approaches a year old, I have been asked by many people when I plan to wean him from breastfeeding. I’ve also asked myself this question. When I was pregnant I knew that I would breastfeed for at least a year, but haven’t given it much thought after that original decision.

I wholeheartedly agree with and believe the vast benefits that breastfeeding has for infants. J has never had any illness other than a slightly runny nose, never had an ear infection or any other health issues and I am sure this is in large part due to breastfeeding. I know that breastfeeding for some mama’s is extremely challenging either by lack of time or milk production levels, and I feel very blessed that I have not had to endure this struggle for the last 10+ months. Which is part of my hesitancy to decide when to wean J.

I don’t feel like I “need” or “have” to wean him. But I also realize that with planning to expand our family soon, I’m not sure how the logistics will work if I were to continue to breastfeed J while pregnant or beyond. It wasn’t until recently that I was educated on the fact that some mama’s can continue to breastfeed both their young children along with their infants in what they call “tandem breastfeeding”. I had no idea that was even a possibility. But I’m also not sure that I could do that or would want to do that with my kiddos. Partly because when your little one is really little, for the first 3-4 months, I felt like all I did was breastfeed. My boob was out of my shirt and attached to J more often than not during those first few months. A blessing, yes…but extremely exhausting at the same time. The idea of feeding two kiddos simultaneously is kind of nerve wrecking for me.

With cows milk being introduced at around a year old, I feel like maybe that will aid in the weaning process too. Although I know there are plenty of ideas and opinions out there about the ill effects of cows milk on infants too…so I’m not using this as my only reasoning behind deciding to wean or not to wean.

So when then? At this point I plan to just see what happens. Maybe J will decide that he’s not that interested anymore….although I don’t see any sign of that yet. And until he starts sleeping through the night I doubt that this will happen on his own accord. Or maybe when baby #2 is on the way and I’m too big around to nurse J comfortably that’ll be when I really push the weaning. Although I haven’t the slightest idea of how to go about that either.

Until then I’ll take full advantage of the snuggle time I have with my little guy, as we all know those days get fewer and further between as the grow into big boys 🙂

(J at about 2 months)

Baby Fever

Published on April 28, 2014 by a.simple.mamaLeave a comment

You never know when it’s going to hit you. Granted if all of your friends or really anyone else around you is either pregnant or thinking of getting pregnant, it’s bound to catch up with you sooner than later. Or if you have a little one who’s about to turn a year…you’re in for it. The fever. Baby fever. I can feel it coming…

When the Hubby and I starting seriously talking about starting a family for ourselves, I had probably had Baby Fever for almost a year. I was ready as soon as we got married. I wouldn’t be surprised if most women are. But we made the plan to wait until the following October(ish) so that we could use our first year to take vacations and take advantage of being child-less. We took full advantage and went on 3 trips that summer, all the while my Baby Fever soaring to new heights. It seemed like there were babies everywhere. Most of my friends already had one or two, plus cousins, friends-of-friends, everywhere I looked there were babies. So once the fall hit, we were both ready. Going into it I told myself it would take a few months. But as luck would have it, we didn’t have long to wait for little J to come along.

Now that J is almost a year, I can feel it coming on again. Partially because we want our kiddos to be close in age, and partly because as soon as your little one reaches that first major milestone you suddenly find yourself missing being pregnant, feeling that little one become something inside your belly, you even miss giving birth. Whoa. I’d always heard that childbirth is the worst pain most easily forgotten. Truth. I remember it hurt like hell and being in labor for 14+ hours only to have a c-section wasn’t a picnic, but I’d do it again in a minute, no doubts. And with the added bonus of more than a few of my friends also thinking of starting or expanding their families in the near future, it fuels the fire even more.

The Hubby asked me the other day how we would manage two kiddos. Yup, the money will be tight(er) and we will sleep even less than we do now, but we’ll figure it out. That’s what you do. Children give you a reason to find a way. You make it work, then one day you look back and can’t imagine how you did it. But you’d still do it all over again without hesitation. I’ve tried to think back on what we used to do in our free time or after work the days pre-baby…for the life of me I can’t really remember. Honestly it was probably pretty much the same as what we do now, only we probably watched more TV. Babies change everything and still seem to fit into your life like they always belonged there.

There are always things to figure out before you start or add to your family, but those things also just seem to fall into place sometimes. Yes it would be ideal to have a house, less balance on the credit card, money set aside for paying all the hospital bills, etc. But not having those things doesn’t mean you aren’t ready or able to handle a family. You make it work. There’s always a reason to wait, but then again the longer you wait the larger the chance someday you’ll look back and wonder why you waited so long.

And if our next one (or two) is anywhere as cute as the first…then bring it on 🙂

eesh I think my uterus just skipped a beat…BABY FEVER!!!!

Mommy Craft #2 – Spring Wreath

Published on April 27, 2014April 27, 2014 by a.simple.mama1 Comment

Hooray for another successful mommy craft day! This time Spring wreaths were on the docket.

K and I got a bunch of ideas from Pinterest and then used some of our own imagination.

Here’s what we started with:

You can find these at any craft store for about $4 each – what a steal! Especially if you catch the 50% off sales.

Then we picked out one good quality fake flower bunch, we went with Hydranga’s

We also picked up some smaller accent flowers with a little more greenery to them

We also picked up some wooden letters and burlap ribbon to add

This is how they turned out

A little hot glue and paint for the letters and ta-da! Not bad at all for around $20-25 each! Way cheaper than something similar pre-made at any store.

Plus the kiddos got to have a play-date too 🙂 Major bonus 🙂

J thought it was so fun to help little K out by bringing him toys and helping bounce him in his chair. He was pretty fascinated by another little baby in such close proximity. Baby’s seem to have that built in intuition that they just know when there is another little baby or little kid. So fun to see these two growing up together 🙂

Peek-a-Boob

Published on April 24, 2014 by a.simple.mamaLeave a comment

What is it about people (mainly men) and peeking when a woman is breastfeeding? There is an entire industry built on helping a woman keep covered up while we breastfeed. I get that while in public there is only so much that you can do to keep yourself covered, and even if you are covered it’s pretty obvious that you have your boob out underneath that pretty designed cover-up. There’s also a whole social movement now days about a woman’s right to breastfeed in public (without a cover). And I must say that during the early days of learning how to feed J in public my boobs were probably the subject of a lot of gawking. Let’s face it, anyone who has breastfed a crying and wiggling munchkin in public has probably flashed more than their fair share of strangers. I’m sure I have.

Early on in the adventures of breastfeeding when the little ones need to eat every hour or two, making it feel like you constantly have you boob out for the world to at least partial see (or imagine), you get used to people staring (or pretending not to stare) and I was so preoccupied trying to get J to actually latch on that I didn’t care who saw whatever they saw. But now that J eats only a few times during the day there’s much less chance that I’ll need to breastfeed him when I’m not at home or at work.

At the office I have a door that closes as well as curtains on my window and blinds on my door as well. So when J is feeding, I turn off my lights and close my door etc. Apparently that is not enough to deter my co-workers or clients from thinking that I’m doing something worth peeking at. Even with the knowledge that I have a small child who is either sleeping or eating when my lights are off and my door is closed, the men I work with can not resist the urge to peer through my window. It’s like I’m a fish in a tank. Even if I close the curtain to my window, it’s almost instinctual for them to try and catch a glance at what’s going on in the dark room. Or as my hubby puts it – “men will try and see boob no matter what.” Oy.

So we came up with this:

“Door closed? Lights off? Then Lauren is UNAVAILABLE. Please do not peek in the window. Please do not tap, wave, knock, whistle or scratch at the door.”

Guess we’ll see if it works! Silly men…